Failure Is Normal, It’s What You Do After That Counts

Does failure have the final say in your life?

Does the fear of failure have you?

Sometimes things simply don’t work, and we need to learn to be okay with things of that nature.

We are ever-learning people on a path that leads into the future.

Don’t feel like you’re an ultimate failure if something doesn’t end up working out.

Some people have ex-wives or ex-husbands due to the human condition. I point this out because many people simply stop when such issues arise in their lives.

You’re not broken or beyond repair in such cases.

That does not mean you’re not worthy of true love, or that you’re escaping toward the ether with fantasies of fulfillment that may not be obtained.

Even if you have an ex-marriage, it doesn’t mean leaving the kids high and dry, for example.

You support them in the best way possible and nurture understanding within that framework. Two people not working out does not prohibit you from still having that amazing relationship with the kids.

Sometimes things don’t work the way you intended from the outset. But that does not mean you’re at the cusp of ultimate failure. We are all human. Things don’t work sometimes.

God will use those broken things in your life for ultimate glory.

If you’ve been cheated on, then the best path forward is to sever that relationship. I believe in forgiveness, of course, but that doesn’t mean staying in such a situation.

No matter what comes your way, you are worthy of love and a blossoming relationship.

If you say things like, “My DMs are dry as a desert,” that doesn’t mean things will always be that way.

There’s no illusion to be had there. Things are just what they are.

Learn from the lessons of the past so that your future will be as bright as the solar rays traveling to give this world light.

Being frozen in a moment in time doesn’t mean that time won’t move forward. Watching the days pass before your eyes from a certain point doesn’t mean that things won’t look up in time.

No matter what mistakes you’ve made, or others have made, doesn’t mean that your story is over.

Move forward boldly into the future. Don’t feel trapped by the failings of yesterday, month, or year.

There is always time for a second chance when you walk with the Creator of All Things.

Yahweh will bring beauty from the ashes of things we’ve lost.

It’s up to us to look forward to how He’s going to do it, and up to us to stay patient as things unfold the way they’re meant to.

It’s good to be objective and understand dead ends happen to the best of us.

The wrong things will wither away to make room for the things that must blossom as we walk our paths through the gardens of life.

Keep yourself humble enough to be taught by bad situations so that the right situations will unfold in your life.

Blessings and shalom to you!

This song is obscure, but it shows we all move on despite things failing.